Lucks!

A friend, a sister, a teacher, a student always loving and rarely irritating is LUCKS. Her name is not LUCKS actually; it is given name to her by me. Today is her birthday and I thought of wishing her in a different way. Here come a big warm hug and a very special birthday wish for my special Lucks. Happy Birthday, darling. You were always so close to my heart and will remain so. The only difference is that I am not able to spend as much time as before with you. I had a great time being with you for more than two years. You were always there for me in my ups and downs. You always had been my strength. We shared secrets and had the same opinion about life, love, family and friends. It amuses me even today that how my sayings, feeling and opinions inspired you always. I must agree that you were a good student and at the same time, you were my teacher. I learnt many lessons about life from you. Lucks I am getting too emotional now, do not know what to write more about you. Even now, while I am typing this I am smiling, thinking about you.

Gardening in Winter

In the hustle and bustle of urban life, your garden is the place where you have contact with nature and enjoy some quiet and peaceful time. Therefore, it deserves special attention in terms of dedication and constant maintenance, to make it a welcoming sanctuary in every season including winter. 

Keeping the freshness and greenness of one’s garden in a foggy, frosty, cold winter is a big challenge for anybody. Plants are also living things: they suffer the winter like many of us do. In the absence of proper care and nourishment, the gardens would be lifeless in winter. Many people ignore their garden in the winter. The feeling is that, once the flowers fade and the leaves die, there is nothing of interest in the garden. Nothing could be further from the truth. With all the work you do to keep your garden beautiful and attractive from spring to autumn, why let your garden die down in winter? Against the harsh backdrop of dew, fog and earth, you can plant a variety of plants that will add dimension to your garden. By selecting proper winter plants (which are listed below) that produce flowers when most other plants are dormant, you can bring colour and interest into your garden even when the days are cold and gloomy. Winter is actually time to rake up all the leaves and make a compost bin so that they can be recycled into an excellent soil conditioner. It is also time to prune shrubs, trees and rose bushes which prepares plants to bloom and grow for next spring. It is about protecting your plants from the changes in the weather, cleaning up from the summer’s reward and winterizing gardening tools to ensure that they stay in good working condition. In winter, it is obvious that the cold temperature makes it very difficult to maintain and grow plants and flowers. But, this is not impossible if you prepare ahead of time during the previous seasons. With the first fall of temperature, it is necessary to begin the pruning of plants and new plantations have to be done before cold winter arrives.

Garden of Dreams, Kehsar Mahal, Kathmandu

Plants and flowers for winter gardens

1. Foxglove flourishes in shade. Grow foxglove plant in partial shade in well-drained, acidic soil, rich in humus.

2. Snapdragon (baghmukhe) needs rich, well-drained soil with plenty of organic matter. Grow it in full sun.

3. Nasturtium has showy, often intensely bright flowers and rounded leaves. Grow it in full sun to partial shade.

4. Pansy (putali phool) is one of the most popular and recognizable cool weather annuals. Pansy tolerates a variety of soils. General-purpose fertilizer works well with it. Grow in partial shade.

Pumila Liliput (in my garden :))

5. Calendula (asarfi) is commonly called “Pot Marigold”. It blooms throughout the season. Grow in full sun or partial shade.

6. Sweet Alyssum flourishes in loamy, well-drained soil. It requires very little attention. Grow in full sun to partial sun.

7. English Ivy needs well-drained soil. It can act as ground cover and also can climb heights. Grow in part shade to full shade.

8. Weeping Winter Jasmine (jaii) is a fast grower. It tolerates almost any well-drained soil and suffers no serious disease or insect pests. Grow it in sun or shade, but it flowers more heavily in sun.

9. Bulbs are also good for winter gardening. Among the most popular of winter-flowering bulbs are Daffodil, Crocus, Hyacinth and Tulip.

Bougainvillaea

Tools and their uses in gardening

Sickle (hasiya)—it is used for many purposes. In gardening, it is used to cut grasses, branches, etc.

Pruning saw (karauti)—very useful for removing branches which are too thick for secateurs or loppers and when working in confined spaces.

Rakes (chande)—a leaf rake is the most effective tool for clearing up a heavy drop of leaves.

Hoe (khurpi, kuto)—hoes are tools used to create furrows in the garden for planting; to break up hard, clumpy soil; and remove weeds. Hoes come in many different sizes and weights; they also come in a wide variety of blade shapes.

Grass shear (kainchi)—grass shears are used to prune and give shape to shrubs.
Lawnmower—lawn mower is used to trim lawn grass. Secateurs (Pruner) (kainchi)—secateurs are used to spruce roses, shrubs, etc. for a cleaner cut with less crushing of the stem.

Leaves collector (doko)—this can be of bamboo or plastic and is used to carry dried leaves.

Watering can (jhari)—watering cans in metal and plastics are available in the market. Their purpose is to water plants.

How to take care of gardening tools

1. Remove soil from tools after use.

2. Never store tools wet. Make sure they are dried completely before storing to prevent rusting and wood handle rot.

3. After use, wipe the metal parts of pruners, shears and saw with oil.

4. During the offseason, sharpen your tools. You can use a whetstone for sharpening cutting tools. Also, a file can be used to remove nicks and smoothen the edges of your tools.

Things to do in the garden in winter

1. Pull up all weeds and dried leaves and begin a compost bin. Composting enables you to recycle garden debris and provides excellent soil conditioners for the next planting season.

2. Cut back dry stems, remove diseased leaves from evergreen plants and discard them into the trash. Do not use diseased leaves for composting; it may transfer the disease to plants. Prune roses and remove stems that cross each other.

3. Shape other bushes and trees into desirable shapes to ensure blooming next spring. Cut off all dead wood from vines, trees, bamboo and shrubs. Check support for vines and strengthen them.

4. A brick-paved path on the lawn adds charm and ambience to the home garden. Be sure to scrub green algae off the bricks. And, keep the edges weed-free and clean.

5. Aerate your soil well, pull weeds and improve your soil texture. Add organic matter such as leaf mould or compost to your soil. Adding ash from firewood is an excellent way to provide nutrients to your garden soil.

6. Clean your garden tools. Be sure to sharpen the edges, and oil the necessary parts of the tools. If you keep your tools in good condition, your work in the spring will be easier. Make sure blades are wiped off and clean before storing them in a dry place.

Happy gardening and may you and your family enjoy long leisurely sun-soaked days in your thriving winter garden!

originally published on healthy life

A letter to Black Rose

A year come and goes by. We make friends, we apart from them with the passage of time, with changes in preferences. And I believe every friend who comes to be part in our life, builds a special compartment for them in our heart that nor it is collapsible neither replaceable. They stay there forever in the form of sweet memories and remembrances. Sometimes they might be overshadowed but not detached. Today I would like to confess that you were always in my heart also in all those days when I was not with you when you were not there with me when I was happy and sad. I am trying to resume our custom of ‘expression through the letter’ your 16^th birthday onwards. :) Wish you wonderful days ahead and all the success and achievements you deserve. Happy Birthday, darling.

Goa Fun!

Day 6 (2^nd October 2011) Sunday

Early Morning Train to Goa

We had great days in Mumbai. It was a lifetime experience for me. And the next chapter was about to begin, Goa. Had heard a lot but never had a chance to visit Goa earlier. I was excited a lot. We took an early morning train to Goa from CST, Mumbai.  I had thought that we would be able to see the sea all day long on the way to Goa because as per the map Goa is just at another end of the Arabian Sea from Mumbai. Contrary to this we happened to see the mountains and our train passed through numerous tunnels until we reached Goa. Truly saying my excitement was slowly going down as the train was passing through those dark, dusty tunnels.
 I was

Colva Beach

not liking the tunnel experience, dark, dusty and smelly tunnels. I must have felt such because we were travelling in Sleeper Class this time. Windows remained open all the time. Here I would like to request one thing from all passengers who travel by Train, not to throw waste and rubbish from the window. All of them were throwing the waste, plastics, and leftovers from the windows. I think only two of us were putting everything in a plastic bag so that we could bin it afterwards. The railway tracks looked so polluted due to all those plastic bags, wrappers and styrofoam plates.

Useful household cleaning tips

To Remove:
Red wine stains from cloth

• Gently squeeze it in good club soda water 
• Wash as normal with soap and water 

Candle wax from carpet or tablecloth

• Scrape as much wax off as possible 
• Place the blotting paper on top of the hardened wax 
• Place the hot iron on top of it 
• Move the blotting paper around to absorb the melting wax 
• Carry on until it all has been removed, but be careful not to burn the fabric underneath 

My Birthday

Birthday Cake

It is my birthday today. 26^th November 2011 counted on my fingers how old am I now? And observed me in the mirror if I looked old. No! not even a trace of old age. I felt happy. Last night my husband wanted me to wake up till 12 AM so that he becomes the first one to wish me on my birthday. I was half asleep when he woke me up and wished me ‘a happy birthday. He had brought Cadbury Gift Packet and a beautiful shawl for me. A surprise gift, Wow!

Mumbai Diary

Day 1 (27-9-2011), Tuesday

It was 4:30 PM; hurriedly I left the office and headed home with my husband, where we had our backpack ready by last night. I and my husband ate some food, carried our backpack and left for Bhairahawa, from where we were supposed to take a rickshaw up to Sunauli then 3 hours car ride and finally to Gorakhpur Junction. Though it was a hectic schedule, I was excited about the train journey which I was about to experience the following day for the first time in my life. We boarded the bus from Gongabu bus station at about 8:30PM; it took about 12 hours to reach Bhairahawa bus station.